My Vagina Site

Appreciating that not everyone wants to get as up close & personal with the pussy as we did in the graphic detail of my last post, I figured I’d start making a habit of occasionally posting some nice pussy pics from a safe enough distance to where we won’t get sucked in. So, whilst I prepare for the next explicit onslaught of fleshy flaps, I’ll leave you to enjoy a few more of the stunningly artistic pretty pussy photos & videos from FemJoy.com:

        

        

        

        

    

    

cervix
/serviks/
• noun (pl. cervices /serviseez/) 1 the narrow neck-like passage forming the lower end of the womb. 2 technical the neck.
— ORIGIN Latin.
[per The Compact Oxford English Dictionary]

As you’ve probably already noticed, I often rely upon personal experience in order to come up with things to write about in my sundry blogs. While I don’t mind sharing my own secret fantasies, I sometimes get concerned when there are others involved in the stories I tell. How will they react? Will they consider the intimate details I include as an invasion of their privacy? This is why I attempt to make my narratives as anonymous as possible so not to offend the sexy and wonderful people who provide me with the “first-hand” (as it were) experiences that ultimately inspire my blog entries.

There was one story, however, that came to be discovered by the lovely young lady who served as its inspirational subject. Several days after having posted the story, a comment appeared from a girl going by the same name as its heroine which merely read, “That made for very entertaining reading, Reese,” followed by a wink. Summarily shocked, I messaged her immediately to ask if she’d minded. She soon responded that, although it did make her blush quite a bit, she was instead flattered and said that it was wonderful to read my own personal perspective on the experience.

In fact, having encountered her again recently at a party she’d hosted, she’d mentioned having discovered MyVaginaSite and said that I should repeat the story here! And so I shall but, first, a bit of background: This particular intimate incident occurred shortly after a Christmas party we’d all attended. The hour being late and the bar having closed, a bunch of us decided to congregate in one of the hotel rooms so that we could all carry on drinking and socialising. And so, despite the dense population of prospective voyeurs inhabiting this crowded hotel room, here’s what happened…

I was sitting on a bed casually stroking the inner thighs of this stunning 26-year-old girl who had laid down next to me. At length, I let my fingers do the walking up to her crotch and, realising that she wasn’t wearing any panties, I leaned down to ask in a whisper if she was okay with what I was doing. She just smiled, nodded and spread her legs a little farther apart to grant me unfettered access to her naked nether regions. I raised her skirt slightly and leaned over a bit to behold a most beautiful clean-shaven pubic mound.

Moving my hand upwards, I began stroking the tender flesh to either side of her vaginal slit with the backs of my fingers, careful not to brush up against the already swelling labia lips just yet. She clenched her thighs a bit to draw my hand inward, so, not wanting to be branded a mere pussy tease by my new-found fondle friend, I ran two fingertips up the length of her long, wet slit and then lingered for a moment toward the top, rubbing little circles over her rapidly-expanding clitoris erection before brushing back downward to take her pussy flaps between my thumb and forefinger for a gentle massage.

Considering that she was now bucking her hips lightly upward to increase the pressure I was applying, I allowed my middle and ring finger to slowly slide ever further into her waiting, wet vagina with every thrust. Moving my thumb up to her clit, I slid by index finger in to join the others, curving it upward to apply pressure to her g-spot as I probed ever deeper with the other two fingers. Although she was young and tight, her vagina was so well lubricated from the past 20 or so minutes of my manual attentions that I was able to deeply penetrate her with relative ease.

Feeling the pre-orgasmic contractions constricting around my fingers, I laid my head on her belly, raising my thumb from her erect clitoris and replacing it with my tongue to taste the flow of vaginal juices gushing gently from between those swollen lips. Wanting to make the most of her experience, I pressed a trembling middle finger into the tiny doughnut of her cervix, all the while brushing across her g-spot with my curled index finger and flicking her engorged clit with the tip of my tongue. She came magnificently as I closed my lips around her clitoral hood and sucked her dry as the spasms of her orgasm subsided.

Ah, the memories. What struck me the most about this lovely young lady was the utter elegance of her cervix. I had just never encountered a cervical hump that was so smooth, round & perfectly formed, like a little fleshy doughnut treat hidden within the innermost depths of her vagina. As she was cumming, it felt almost as if her pumping cervix was literally sucking my fingertip into itself. It was a most intensely erotic feeling, and one that I’ll not soon forget. Although she was a stunning girl with lovely large breasts and an amazing body, nothing short of a herd of wild elephants couldn’ve torn me away from that perfect pussy.

…funny thing is, I was so totally transfixed by her beautiful cervix that I failed to notice the comings and goings of numerous friends throughout that evening! It was only later that I found myself apologising for having ignored them, me being totally wrapped up in pussy at the time.

Rereading my story, however, I was suddenly struck with the disturbing notion that it might have been inappropriate to say that she had a “beautiful cervix” without having actually seen it, instead relying purely upon touch. In fact, apart from medical illustrations of the female reproductive system, I’d never seen a cervix before in my life! And so, in researching this blog, I set out to correct this blatant oversight, especially considering how useful it is to have a good visual image of the anatomical territory you’re dealing with when probing the innermost depths of your girlfriend’s vagina!

Getting to know the cervix is important for two reasons: 1) At the very back of the vagina surrounding the cervical hump you’ll find an area known as the fornix (hmmm, I wonder if this is from whence the term “fornication” was derived?!) and, in addition to the more commonly known erogenous zones of the G-spot and clitoris, this region - also known as the A-spot (due to the anterior fornix being in closest proximity to where all of the nerve bundles of the genitals converge before ultimately joining up with the spinal column) - can be manipulated to induce a most powerful female orgasm known as the “uterine orgasm”! Oh, and 2), you’ll be well aware upon encountering this curious construct of conical flesh that your girlfriend doesn’t have a small penis lodged up inside of her pussy from some past sexual conquest!!

Although my second reason there was offered totally tongue-in-cheek, the cervix really does somewhat resemble the head of an erect penis when you first feel it with your fingers, especially when you come across the small slit that serves as the entrance to her uterus (as, alas, it would be far too crass to refer to this opening as her “womb-hole”). However, getting to actually see so far into this most inner sanctum of womanhood does pose some difficulty and requires either an endoscopic camera or a gynecological speculum in order to get a clear view of the cervix.

My quest to provide pictures led me to several medical fetish gyno-porn sites, but most of these proved far too disrespectful toward women for me to even consider featuring their content. Then, after five days of dedicated searching, I finally stumbled upon a site called “In The Crack” which, despite the seemingly vulgar name, really impressed me with their overall ethos and respectfulness toward their models…

InTheCrack writes:
While we do show the most graphic private parts views possible, including deep vaginal views and spread pussy pee-hole-in-action views, noticeably absent from inthecrack are all the less desirable vices that typically come with hardcore porn videos. There is no obsessive cursing, and girls are not being spit on, slapped, called a bitch, or taken advantage of. You might see deep pussy speculum views but don’t expect to see too many girl’s ass holes pried open by a speculum. If you’ve ever had a speculum up your ass you’ll know why. Unlike some adult producers we do respect the models comfort and ensure that they have a good time during the shoot.

…that’s all I needed and, now having reviewed a lot of their content in search of the perfect cervix, I’m pleased to say I didn’t find a single one of their “speculum girls” who didn’t appear to be enjoying herself! In the end, I settled upon a beautiful young blonde named Rachel who was using a transparent plastic speculum to spread her pussy wide enough to grant a glorious view on the inside of her vagina all the way back to her cervix (and what a beautiful cervix it was!). Strangely, I know an awful lot of guys who really don’t like looking at such graphic pussy pics, but isn’t it just so much better to actually see what you’re getting yourself into? ;~)

And so, here’s the lovely Rachel and her speculum spreading wide for us who can appreciate the true natural splendour of her exquisite innermost depths courtesy of InTheCrack.com:

        

        

        

        

Frankly, I would find it rather hard to believe that there’s a man, woman or beast alive upon this green Earth who hasn’t seen the paparazzi photos of Britney Spears flashing her pussy as she stepped out of Paris Hilton’s car whilst Lindsay Lohan looked on…

(photo courtesy of egotastic)

…of course, this is old news now (said pussy pics having first circulated circa November of 2006) and the sensationalist tabloid “Pop Slut Flashes Gash” headlines are long passed. However, for all of the press it received at the time and considering the remarkable influence of celebrity upon popular culture, this incident failed to produce the profusion of copycat pussy flashers as a growing fad that I’d been hoping for.

Once again, I find myself blaming the mainstream media for this fad failing to take hold. Indeed, the press published some decidedly inconsiderate & cruel commentary with regard to poor Britney’s bare little pussy in what they’d come to dub the “pantygate scandal”. The New York Post even went so far as to brand this pop party posse triumvirate of Britney Spears, Paris Hilton & Lindsay Lohan the “Three Bimbos of the Apocalypse“!

Personally, I find girls flashing their pussies quite sexy regardless of whether it’s accidental or deliberate, and the fact that our Britney wasn’t wearing any panties came as no shocker either (since most of the women I know tend to “go commando” anyway). But, judging by the media’s overblown reaction to the somewhat tamer Janet Jackson Superbowl nipple slip incident (I’m sorry - “wardrobe malfunction”) in 2004, the general public’s acceptability of female genitalia on display probably won’t happen within my lifetime.

So thank goodness for porn - where women can feel the freedom to flash their private parts with impunity, should they so desire, without it being branded “sad & ugly” (as one Australian reporter put it regarding Ms. Spears’ paparazzi-pussy interface). What brought on this Britney-based blast from the past for me was a photo gallery I’d encountered from photographer par excellence Ron Harris wherein someone finally takes up Britney’s pussy flash copycat challenge to exploit its true fad potential.

Although little blonde Jana Foxy isn’t really a Britney Spears look-alike, I think she does a wonderful job in emulating some of the exposed pussy poses that brought Britney infamy for her alleged “public indecency”. In fact, Jana takes this automotive egress pink flash theme to extremes by spreading her legs wide enough to reveal those lovely puffy pussy lips (which is much nicer look than Britney’s neat & tidy tucked-in flaps, imho) in all their genital glory, as if offering an open invitation to probe the depths of her “inner character”. Simply breathtaking.

And so, here’s beautiful blonde Jana Foxy being Britney for a bit in these stunning public pussy flash photos from RonHarris.com…

        

…when she’s not impersonating Britney Spears, Jana’s just another gorgeous girl amidst the endless bounty of feminine beauty comprising the Ron Harris harem. As such, I thought it only fair that we should take the opportunity to appreciate Jana for herself rather than just being some Britney clone (that and the fact that we’d get to see Jana Foxy fully nude and fingering her girlfriend Sandy’s pussy in one of the many lesbian sex scenes featured on the site)…

        

        

        

…and, finally, just so we can admire this most marvellous maiden in motion, I figured a few preview videos might be in order. So, once again, here’s the incomparably beautiful blonde Jana Foxy shaving her pussy and masturbating in the bath in these video clips courtesy of RonHarris.com:

    

    

I like big tits (as if you’re not already painfully aware). Thing is, when I’m out & about it’s quite easy to pinpoint babes who appeal to me on the boobs front (”front” being the operative word there, as a woman’s breast assets are on display for all the world to see). Even if covered in clothing that doesn’t reveal her cleavage, the telltale humps of a nice, giant pair of chest puppies perched upon such well-endowed women in “udderly” unmistakable.

However, I’m also quite fond of a big pussy on a girl, regardless of her other endowments. Forget those almost-virginal dainty-looking tight & tidy pussies with a tiny clitoris and labia lips neatly tucked up inside revealing but a slight slit - give me a gloriously gaping sloppy wet vagina surrounded by a pair of pendulous puffy pussy flaps and topped off with a succulently suckable huge clit and I can get lost between a girl’s legs for days on end.

But, unlike as is the common case with breasts, it’s impossible to tell if a woman is adequately endowed down below enough to satisfy my particular taste in pussy when I’m out on the prowl in public (unless she’s flashing pink, of course). While I do categorically object to the sexism of the wolf-whistles & cat-calls that some women are subjected to on the street when they’re well-endowed up top, I’d just for once like to find myself walking down the road and suddenly hear some sexist bloke shout out, “Blimey!! Will you look at the hefty beef-curtains on that babe?!”

Alas, this will never happen unless everyone just started walking around naked (a most unlikely prospect in such a Puritanical society where a mere flash of pink when a celeb’s getting out of her car becomes front-page news in the tabloids and gets her branded a “slut”). There’s just no accurate or reliable way of discerning the size of a girl’s genitalia judging by any other outward physical characteristic. So there’s no choice but to wait patiently until you get a girl totally nude before you can tell if your own particular pussy passions will be fulfilled.

I recently ran across a website called Ron Harris Studio which contains some of the most artistic & beautiful pussy close-ups I’ve ever seen. And so, as evidence that you can’t tell a pussy by its cover, I’ve selected a few sets of lovely female genitals and provided a face photo followed by two close-up pussy pics to show both the owner and their most enviable erotic equipment in these galleries courtesy of RonHarris.com:

        

        

        

        

        

        

        

        

…take it easy, don’t you know that I have never been fucked like this before.

“Baby, baby” indeed (with sincerest apologies to Andy Kim). As much as I’d tried to provide a gentle introduction to fisting in my first post on the topic, I failed miserably when it came down to the video examples accompanying that blog. Unfortunately, most of the pussy fisting portrayed in porn is of the full-insertion, rapid-fire, “up to the elbow” ilk - what I would best categorise as extreme fisting - and I guarantee that, if you attempt to start off in this fashion, your partner will likely be put off the practice forever.

Pussy fisting should provide profound pleasure and not pain, and so a slow, considerate, patient approach is required (especially if your wife or girlfriend has never been fisted before). And so, subsequent to that introductory blog, I’ve been keeping an eye out for examples of the sort of gentle fisting I sought to portray in that post and, trolling through the countless video galleries of FTV Girls (from whence MyVaginaSite’s cover-pussy comes), I soon found precisely the fashion of fisting that I’d been looking for!

In this video, we find two young, nubile blondes exploring each other’s bodies to the point of mutual masturbation with each alternately inserting a hand into their girlfriend’s vagina to feel the moist, tactile wonders which lie within and discovering pleasures unattainable by masturbating on one’s own. I do so envy these two uninhibited teens - not out of any sort of jealous sexual desire but merely because they’re open-minded enough to freely share their bodies with each other and discover the joy of fisting so early on in life.

It just makes me wish I’d paid more attention to my girlfriend’s pussy at that age instead of incessantly obsessing over her big tits all the time. The last time I saw her before I moved away, she was 22 and about to get married to a nice Catholic boy. Although it had been five years since we’d last been together, sexually speaking, and she’d had plenty of sex partners since then, she admitted to me during that final visit together that she still had yet to experience an orgasm. :~( If only I had known I’d have put aside my breast obsession for the time being and focused more fully upon her pussy.

Ah - regrets, I’ve had a few - and hindsight can be a cruel tease. Besides, I was terribly young at the time and, in the rushed nature of stealthy sex when and where the opportunity arose combined with the typical sexual insecurities of youth, really didn’t have the faintest idea of how to properly pleasure a woman. In fact, it wasn’t until the ripe old age of 37 that I’d finally “come to grips” with the female genitalia thanks to a partner who was totally open to my exhaustive exploration of her clitoris, labia, vagina, cervix and all the other components coming together to form the female sexual anatomy.

All of which is precisely why I’m so envious of Jana Foxy & Sandy, the two young ladies in today’s video. While I’m sure the porn world would describe them using such provocative promotional patter as “bisexual blonde teens” or even *gasp* “teenage lesbians”, Jana & Sandy simply strike me as being two typical yet open-minded girlfriends willing to share each other’s bodies and thus get to learn more about themselves and their sexuality through a little mutual masturbation (and, besides, I’ve always felt that bisexuality is in the eye of the beholder) in these gentle fisting videos from FTVgirls.com:

    

Isn’t the vagina a most marvellous thing?! It can be cock-crushingly tight during orgasm and yet expansive enough to deliver a baby. The mere fact that you can fit your whole fist inside, wriggle about a bit and then ask “How many fingers am I holding up?” is a testament to its flexibility. And so, with the possibility of so many things being able to fit in the voluminous vagina, why not have a go at getting two cocks inside there at once?

My first semi-girlfriend whom I’d actually fucked (you know, the one from the story I’d written about losing my virginity) desperately wanted to try this. However, her real boyfriend at the time was a bit of a homophobe and couldn’t stand the thought of another man even being within touching distance during sex. Thus, the occasional threesomes we all shared together were limited to the more long-distance ménage à trois activities such as spit-roasting so, sadly, my first fuck-buddy was unfairly denied the vaginal double-penetration experience she so craved.

The first time I ever actually participated in the penetration of a pussy occupied by another penis happened 23 years later whilst the wife & I were enjoying a nice holiday in Amsterdam. We’d spent the day visiting the many pubs & cafes of the city with a local porn producer as our tour guide. As evening fell, the three of us ended up back in Vix’ & my hotel room so we could carry on drinking and chatting. Now, I’m not exactly sure how this happened but one moment the three of us were just sitting on the bed casually chatting and next thing I knew we were all stark-bollock naked (how do these things happen?!)!

It wasn’t long before Vix mounted her new-found fuck-friend cowgirl-style and began riding his cock. Although I was thoroughly enjoying the scene of these two fucking right next to me with a glorious side-view of Vix’ big boobs bouncing against him as they thrust together (a perspective I’d never got to see before since it’d always just been the two of us with me underneath) turning me on to no end, I began to feel a little left out. Sensing an opening for myself and with thoughts of the missed opportunities from my youth, I sidled up behind her bum and began rubbing my throbbing erection against their coital connection.

Feeling me there behind her, Vix suddenly stopped moving mid-thrust to allow me to position my penis for entry into her occupied pussy. With the first cock still firmly in place, she carefully pushed back against me - so as not to displace the penis already inside of her - as I slowly eased my hips forward and… I was in! Vix remained motionless as I began thrusting, the additional tightness provided by the supplemental penis being an unexpected treat, and it wasn’t long before our first-in fuck-buddy picked up on my cue and began thrusting himself upward in counter-rhythm to my strokes.

The dual friction of Vix’ vaginal wall against the top of my cock whilst the other male member rubbed its underbelly in the opposite direction with every stroke was exquisitely erotic, so I couldn’t even begin to imagine how much she might be enjoying this sexy new sensation! However, this became almost painfully evident shortly thereafter when she came, the orgasmic contractions so intense I couldn’t hold back any longer and just let loose pumping wave after wave of hot cum into her tight pussy already filled to capacity.

That was all it took and Vix (for whom the old saying “a cock in each hand is worth two in the bush” most certainly does not apply) has been summarily hooked on DVP ever since (and I must admit that I rather enjoy it myself!). Unfortunately, most guys we encounter are a lot like my first fuck-buddy’s boyfriend in that they find the thought of another man’s cock rubbing against theirs, even if it’s inside of a woman’s vagina, to be totally abhorrent. Some even refuse to fuck a girl with a dildo or vibrator stuffed inside of her pussy - which, frankly, makes for some good and mutually enjoyable DVP practice - as even that’s too close for comfort!

What is it with some blokes? Do they think that having their manhood in close proximity to even a plastic penis might make them gay?! Shame, really, as they’re potentially depriving their partner of a unique sexual experience she might really enjoy! Oh well, for those of you a bit more open-minded to the sexual possibilities of inviting another penis-equipped partner into your relationship for DVP purposes, here’s the lovely Isabella Soprano to provide some fine examples of “two cocks in one box” double vaginal penetration in these photos & videos from 2DicksIn1Chick.com:

        

        

        

        

        

    

In my recent “Would you date a slut?” quiz over on MyBoobSite, I mentioned the phenomenon of “displaying” wherein such predatory and promiscuous girls flash their pussies in public in order to indicate their attraction to you as a potential sex partner. It was my wife who’d originally availed me to the term “displaying” after an experience we’d had at a party a while back: We were sitting in two big armchairs in the corner when this bloke whom she’d fancied began walking in our general direction. She immediately propped her leg up on the chair arm and, lifting her skirt to reveal her bare vulva (yes, like most good British girls, she doesn’t wear any panties), gave him a lingering look at her labia lips as this fiendish “fuck me now” expression spread across her face. But, as much as I like her “displaying” terminology as a quick & dirty way to describe this pussy flashing practice, I’m more wont to refer to it as “the mating call of the slut”.

However, in the photographic evidence I’d provided along with the quiz, the model featured in the photos was naked and, when you’re out in public, such things are indeed a rarity (unless, of course, you’re at a swingers’ sex club or some other such venue tolerant of public nudity). And so, I searched the net for porn which would provide a more realistic example of what it’s like in real life and had to go no further than a site called Public Flash (which, judging by it’s photo & video content, would perhaps be more appropriately entitled “Pubic Flash”) to show precisely the pose I was talking about.

The following photo gallery of little blonde Tina from PublicFlash illustrates the seductive nature of sluts putting their genitalia on display as a prime pulling technique perfectly. Set in a roadside cafe, Tina starts out by selecting an unsuspecting bloke with whom she fancies a fuck and playfully flashes her tits at him. Merely flashing your boobs, though, does not a slut make. Living in Britain, I’ve encountered loads of girls who don’t mind “getting their tits out for the lads” that aren’t truly promiscuous. For them, it’s just more of a fun tease whilst at the pub having a night out with the girls.

No, a true slut can only be accurately identified by what comes next - the pussy flash from across the room. Unlike the brief upskirt glimpses of pink we sometimes get treated to on a windy day, the pussy flash of the displaying slut is a most deliberate ordeal, often lasting for several seconds until she’s sure she’s got your undivided attention. And, once she’s caught your eye with her exposed clit, watch closely because, if she starts casually fingering her pussy and spreading her lips to show the growing wetness of her vagina, you can be quite certain that you’re “in there” for sure!

Curiously, I know an awful lot of guys who are put off by such forward sexual behaviour from a girl (in fact, in the pussy flashing party incident mentioned earlier, the bloke in question later took me aside and had a quiet word, saying that he was a bit intimidated by my wife’s gratuitous genital display and called me a “brave man” for having married her). In the results I’ve received so far in my little slut quiz, only 30% of respondents said they’d be happy with a slut wife or girlfriend. Nearly 40% reported that slut girls are only good for a quick fuck and nothing more (i.e. “a nice place to visit, but I wouldn’t want to live there”). The remainder were divided between either avoiding sluts like the plague or only considering them to be potential “girlfriend material” if these greedy girls gave up their constant compulsion to copulate with a continuous stream of fresh, new cock.

Thus, for those of you who happen to be slut lovers like myself, here’s lovely little slutty blonde Tina demonstrating the horny sluts’ displaying technique to perfection along with a few other examples of publicly flashing her tits, ass & pussy, courtesy of PublicFlash.com:

        

        

        

        

It’s a well-known fact that women produce a wide variety of bodily fluids during sex. These can include natural vaginal lubricant, sweat, menses, ejaculate and liquid from her bladder. However, while it’s generally accepted that men will inevitably ejaculate as a result of sex - being a “heavy cummer” even more highly regarded as a sign of virility - such has not always been the case with women. Historically speaking, there was a sad time when women’s bodily fluids were feared as “unclean” and exposure was to be avoided at all costs. Even now, many consider it less feminine for a girl to get wet & messy during sex!

In my own sexual history, I was totally unaware that women could ejaculate during orgasm much in the same manner as men. In fact, apart from menstruation and urine, I really didn’t know about any of the other fluids a woman produced from her genitalia! Looking back, though, I have to consider that all of my past sexual partners required additional lubrication in order to have sex comfortably (no, I’m not bragging about the size of my cock here - rather, it was either just a case of relative vaginal dryness on their parts or perhaps inadequate foreplay on my part). This all changed, however, upon encountering my current partner…

The very first time I’d ever met Vix in person, the two of us were naked within 20 minutes. But, having just flown over 5,000 miles to meet her, I was totally exhausted and took far longer than her undressing. Whilst I was doing this, Vix was knelt up on the sofa, stark bollock nude and fingering her pussy in my general direction (which, in retrospect, is most probably the true starting point of my profound passion for pussy). As she was stroking her hands over her vulva, occasionally spreading her swollen pussy flaps wide to reveal the inviting, moist tunnel of love that would become the new home for my throbbing cock, it was the squelchy sound of her immense wetness that turned me on more than anything else. In all of my years of having sex (me having been 37 years old at the time), I’d never encountered a woman who produced such massive volumes of vaginal lubrication in eager anticipation of a fuck. It was literally gushing out of her soaked pussy and flowing freely down her tensed inner thighs like a glistening waterfall!

[Can't believe how much I'm shaking whist writing this, not to mention (warning: TMI alert!) getting a bit of a leak on myself from the lustfully lingering sexual intensity of the memory.]

It wasn’t until a good time later, though - once we’d both become more comfortable and sexually familiar with each other’s bodies - that I first experienced genuine female ejaculation from Vix. My face was buried between her legs at the time, administering cunnilingus by licking my tongue hard against her clit whilst the middle & index fingers of my right hand probed her pussy to massage her g-spot. As she approached orgasm, Vix pressed her hand down firmly on my head and, through tightly-clenched teeth, loudly commanded, “Suck my clit!” I shifted my hand downward to make room for my mouth, the additional leverage causing my fingers to press even harder into her g-spot, and pursed my lips over her swollen clitoris, sucking for all I was worth. Within mere moments, there was a flood of fluid gushing from her now-pulsing pussy into my mouth and the strength of her vaginal contractions squeezed my fingers harder than ever before. Indeed, I had experienced my first squirting orgasm with a woman!

Unfortunately, many women misinterpret their urge to ejaculate as having to pee (since the sensations are somewhat similar) and thus hold back, depriving themselves of the ultimate in earth-shattering female orgasms. However, female ejaculation and urination are two distinctly different things. Although both originate from the urethra immediately beneath the clitoral hood, the ejaculate originates moreso from the female prostate than the bladder. Whereas urine contains high concentrations of creatinine and urea, the female ejaculate is much higher in things like prostate-specific antigens, prostate-specific acid phosphatase and fructose, the latter of which is responsible for the distinctive sweetness one can occasionally detect when tasting “girl cum” (since it’s a type of sugar).

As is the case with fisting, the first secret key to getting your girl gushing like a fountain of female sexuality is patience. Take your time to learn the ins & outs her genital anatomy with a focus upon “what’s under the (clitoral) hood”, as simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris, urethra (through the vaginal wall) and g-spot is the most common method of achieving a squirting orgasm for beginners. Be especially careful and gentle around the urethral opening on the underside of the clitoral hood, though, as this can be quite sensitive and potentially painful for a woman who’s not experienced stimulus there before. I’d personally recommend pressing the tip of your tongue against this region with just a light pressure and not licking or moving whilst you continue to gently manipulate the top of the clitoris and massage her g-spot. Again, pay close attention to any visual or audible feedback she provides to make sure what you’re doing is both comfortable and pleasurable.

The second key is to let your girl know that it’s okay to “let go”. As I’d mentioned before, many women are uncomfortable with the idea of female ejaculation because they either feel that it’s just peeing or have been indoctrinated into thinking that wet & messy sex is wrong. Also, bear in mind that women who masturbate and are thus more intimately aware of how to pleasure their own pussies have a head-start on this whole female ejaculation thing so, should you discover that your wife or girlfriend is a chronic masturbator, don’t discourage her (sadly, I do know some jealous blokes who take it personally when their partner prefers masturbating to fucking them from time to time - so just get over the jealousy and be supportive, guys, as it’ll serve to dramatically improve your sex lives in the long run!)!

Right, then, on with a few examples of the wonder of female ejaculation I found for you over at a site called “I Love to Squirt“. The first model I’ve chosen to illustrate this splendid pussy phenomenon is a stunning young blonde named Mitch. I chose her not only because her volume of ejaculate is relatively slight and thus more akin to what you’d encounter starting out (besides, a vast majority of the porn which shows a gushing pussy squirting buckets of girl-cum is typically fake - more on that later), but also because she’s having a laugh doing it (thus showing she’s totally comfortable with us watching her wanking). And so, here’s little Mitch masturbating herself to a gushing orgasm courtesy of ILoveToSquirt.com…

        

        

        

        

…for today’s videos, however, I’ve decided to abandon my aims at authenticity and just go for the gushers. Caveat emptor, though, as there’s no way of telling which of the following videos are real examples of legitimate pussy squirters and which have been faked (if any). The porn industry, intent on capitalising on the pussy squirting fetish, deceptively considers any woman expelling liquid from her pussy to be a squirter. Sometimes it can be urine and other times they’ll go so far as filling the vagina with fluid to be expelled through the simulation of orgasmic contractions.

For shame! And, unfortunately - since we can’t be there to smell & taste the ejaculate - there’s no way of telling for sure. What’s worse, this can lead to unrealistic expectations toward your partner when her own girls cum-shots don’t measure up to the voluminous vaginal explosions found in such porn videos! So, once again with the caveat that I can’t confirm whether this is real pussy squirting or not, here are a few more extreme pussy gushing videos from ILoveToSquirt.com:

    

    

    

    

    

    

Ah, this feels so liberating; being able to whole-heartedly indulge in my pussy fetish without the fear of annoying regular readers of my other blogs with gratuitous gash shots whenever they strike my fancy for flaps. I’ve done this most notably in the past with Ines Cudna & Terry Nova on my big tits blog and masturbating Mia & Sweet Devilz Candy on my BBW blog, although I’m quite certain that there are countless other instances within which I’ve proffered unwelcome pussy pics upon unsuspecting admirers of big boobs & BBWs. Well, no longer, as MyVaginaSite is here to stay!

But gash shots don’t necessarily have to be gratuitous. Indeed, if you’ve got a good photographer who’s able to push the pussy up front in terms of visual focus, then the alluring “pink flash” can become quite artistic! There’s one particular porn site that I’d secretly visited time and time again whilst publicly professing my love of large breasts and larger ladies: FemJoy.com. Unlike most of the sites I’d visited to gather content for my blogs, they seemed to have some of the most captivating pussy photos. It was my mate Jess who’d originally turned me on to th is fine site originally, telling me of a gorgeous girl named Abbigail there whom he thought might be busty enough for my boob blog, and from that first visit I was totally hooked.

Whether they’re the more slutty shots of a girl spreading her legs to put her pussy on public display - something I personally find profoundly erotic as if offered in an invitation to intercourse and end up wanting to marry the girl (have I mentioned that find sluts extremely attractive here yet?) - or just the more innocent-appearing sneaky flash of gash caught from behind, FemJoy’s photos & videos seem to capture the powerful essence of both femininity and sexuality that the exposed pussy implies, elevating the vulva to its rightful place of being revered not only as a feminine fertility symbol but for its truly unique and natural beauty as well.

And so, I thought I’d leave you all for the weekend with a few photo & video galleries, having carefully selected thumbnails which represent some of my favourite pretty pussy poses upon the basis of their artistic merit (imho), all courtesy of FemJoy.com:

        

        

        

        

        

        

    

    

For many, the mere mention vaginal fisting conjures images of an unpleasant, painful or even violent sexual encounter. However, this does not have to be the case. In fact, I’ve found fisting to be one of the most intensely intimate masturbation methods that one can share with their sex partner, often resulting in earth-shaking orgasms for the fistee (if it’s done right, of course) and even female ejaculation (aka “squirting” or “gushing”) because of the unfettered access granted to those hidden erogenous zones such as the g-spot (the hump of flesh on the vaginal wall immediately behind the pubic bone) and the area surrounding the entrance to the cervix (which feels like a fleshy bump resembling a tiny doughnut at the very back of the vagina).

Again, proper fisting technique is critical in achieving a pleasurable experience and, should you think that your partner’s pussy is too tight to accommodate your whole hand, just remember where babies come from! The trick in getting started on the road to fisting is to take it slow and use plenty of lubricant (unless your girl is intensely self-lubricating like my wife whose pussy gets totally saturated upon adequate arousal). During your first few sessions, you might only be able to get two or three fingers inside of her, but be patient. Even after you’ve worked your way in to the knuckles, keep in mind that it can take up to an hour of gentle pussy play to relax into the experience and go farther. [Oh, and be sure to trim your fingernails (ever wonder why real lesbians all have really short nails?)! Or, alternately, a latex surgical glove can be used to ensure the greatest protection.]

Once you’ve worked your way past the knuckles and you’re certain your partner is comfortable, it’s time to start casually exploring the wondrous inner world of the vagina. And, for all the partners I’ve had the pleasure of fisting since my pussy fetish kicked in, I can honestly say that no two vaginas are exactly the same. The texture of the vaginal canal, the size and shape of the cervical bump and even the precise location of the g-spot varies from woman to woman. Thus the need for exploration and experimentation. [Oh, and whilst you're gently feeling your way around the sexually stimulating frontier that is the vaginal environment, be sure to watch and listen closely for any indications of either pleasure or discomfort from your partner, as these will be your keys for unlocking her ultimate orgasmic ecstasy.]

For some women, one or two fingers slowly stroking over the area of the g-spot with a moderate pressure is enough to trigger a gushing ejaculatory experience. With others, it can come from grasping or tracing circles around the cervix. Some even derive profound sexual stimulus from the massaging of lower wall of the vagina canal nearest the rectum. Again, it’s a matter of experimentation and feedback. And, once you’ve found that special area that turns your girl on to no end, DON’T STOP! [I can't count the number of times early on in my fisting career that a woman complained about me changing what I was doing just when she was on the verge of orgasm!] Keep it up, and pretty soon you’ll have compiled a comprehensive masturbatory map of all of the most sensitive erogenous zones your partner possesses within!

There are just so many subtle techniques to more advanced fisting - knuckles only, open palm fisting, open fingers fisting, the finger wave, to the elbow, twisting, “brass knuckles” & “cleaning the bird” to mention just a few - it would take me forever to go through all of the ins & outs of each one herein (eh, perhaps save those for a future post). However, try as I might to find examples of these various fisting techniques in video form, the porn industry seems intent on showing only the sort of extreme hardcore fisting that frightens people off from exploring its true sexual intimacy potential with their partners. Hmmm, maybe I should check out some of the female-oriented women’s porn sites to see if I can find any examples to adequately illustrate the type of gentle introduction to fisting that I’m talking about.

And so, as a prime illustration of what not to do - at least when you’re just starting out - here are a few fisting videos (along with some of the resultant pussy squirting and gushing) from FistFlush.com: